tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post3495681445771500634..comments2023-10-10T16:55:07.206+07:00Comments on Sugar, Spice, and Everything Nice.: Why We Shouldn't Date Until We're 18 (or older)Titan Tyrahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12775882806345928044noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-29109278145415815122016-09-02T20:13:30.738+07:002016-09-02T20:13:30.738+07:00My developer is trying to convince me to move to ....My developer is trying to convince me to move to .net from PHP. I have always disliked the idea because of the expenses. But he’s tryiong none the less. I’ve been using Movable-type on several websites for about a year and am anxious about switching to another platform. I have heard great things about blogengine.net. Is there a way I can transfer all my wordpress posts into it? Any help would be really appreciated!<br />_______________________<br /><a href="http://www.couplesecret.com/" rel="nofollow">Gay dating</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12850511474252139920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-75265596331714546022016-06-22T06:07:47.288+07:002016-06-22T06:07:47.288+07:00Kalo orang cantik kaya titan sih ga masalah, mau n...Kalo orang cantik kaya titan sih ga masalah, mau nunggu sampai usia 30 taun masih ada yg ngelirikAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01967438602010217266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-18849078035390662422014-12-08T11:25:56.010+07:002014-12-08T11:25:56.010+07:00Hi, D!
Apologies for the late reply. I truly did...Hi, D! <br /><br />Apologies for the late reply. I truly did go through my early onset relationships "with the awareness" that they probably weren't going to end up as my husband. However, just as you said, hormones & feelings do not lie. We cannot help ourselves but fall in love with the person we're dating, esp. when they are being sweet, loving, and when they shower us with affection that friends are unable to provide us with. We fall deep into these young relationships, giving our all and leaving little for our future relationships (more serious ones). <br /><br />Emotions get meddled with, trust issues arise, these problems are too messy for kids below the age of 18 to know how to deal with. Relationships take maturity, something adolescents simply do not possess.<br /><br />There is plenty of time to learn and practice after we've got all of those teenage rebellion & instability out of the way. Romance can wait - true, quality romance, that is :)Titan Tyrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12775882806345928044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-26664395859777562262014-07-26T13:00:20.891+07:002014-07-26T13:00:20.891+07:00Wouldn't a better solution be engaging in non ...Wouldn't a better solution be engaging in non committal dating? It's rather difficult to repress romantic feelings especially considering that we evolved to reproduce at what...14 years old? Hormones don't lie. A better solution would be to engage in dating WITH THE AWARENESS that the person you're dating probably isn't your "soulmate". I think part of the heartbreak that comes with teen dating is the unjustified belief that there is one person in the world that's perfect for you. Inexperienced teenagers will think the first person they fall in love with is that person, where it may just simply be hormones. If teenagers dated with that awareness, wouldn't we see a lot less heartbreak and a lot more learning? Interested in hearing your thoughts Titan. <br /><br />D,Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-10569250341507290182014-07-03T13:56:31.338+07:002014-07-03T13:56:31.338+07:00"Without loving yourself first, how do you ex..."Without loving yourself first, how do you expect your heart to have enough strength to muster love for another?" I do agree with this, It might be written simply like this but I'm pretty sure that u put a deep meaning on it.<br /><br />Hi Titan Tyra... u're quite good in expressing ur thoughts. So, keep writing. Practices make perfect.<br />Have a good day. :)calvinteo24https://www.blogger.com/profile/02938035684115908662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-12407109747483463212014-07-03T13:55:15.853+07:002014-07-03T13:55:15.853+07:00This comment has been removed by the author.calvinteo24https://www.blogger.com/profile/02938035684115908662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-65523194661650395662014-05-17T18:05:18.465+07:002014-05-17T18:05:18.465+07:00Good article Tan! :)Good article Tan! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07208191565605312593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-69757811970941384482014-03-11T01:47:01.591+07:002014-03-11T01:47:01.591+07:00I agree with most of what you wrote in here but I ...I agree with most of what you wrote in here but I just have to add a few comments. I think all that 'practice' nonsense is a loss especially for girls. In society there's still a great amount of taboo around female sexual desire, and as a result women are much more vulnerable to reputational damage than men. And like you said, our hearts are not to toy around with. So many young people waste too much time on detrimental relationships when they could have used their youth to do something useful. <br /><br /><br />Btw, I think you'd make a great writer ;)<br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-72361957727985278402014-03-09T21:29:45.739+07:002014-03-09T21:29:45.739+07:00Hello to both commenters! Thank you for your insig...Hello to both commenters! Thank you for your insight xx<br /><br />I suppose in this topic and really every other scenario there is out there, the quote "the grass is greener on the other side" rings very true.<br /><br />For those of us who've begun dating at a young age, we are envious of the innocence that our friends that didn't start dating have. However, I am only speaking from my experience and I have chosen to write this article to voice out my opinion gathered from my experiences. I used to think like you, Anonymous #1, I wanted to date around because I wanted to "practice" for the real thing. I later realized how silly and foolish my path of thinking was because although I did gain valuable lessons from those relationship and grew more mature through them, I also in turn damaged my heart and soul to the point where it caused problems to the relationships I had when I was in my late teens. In accordance to Anon #2, yes, I was unlucky enough to date boys that were manipulative and cheated my feelings.<br /><br />Why date just to practice? These are matters of the heart we're talking about. And the heart is not something we play around with.<br /><br />Many of my friends haven't been in any serious relationships yet, but they also learnt a lot about dating and boys through my experiences and my heartbreaks. <br />Titan Tyrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12775882806345928044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-83534787498674987522014-03-09T21:20:01.904+07:002014-03-09T21:20:01.904+07:00Thanks for the compliment! I definitely have more ...Thanks for the compliment! I definitely have more of where this is coming from, hope you'll enjoy my future articles :)Titan Tyrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12775882806345928044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-81162934876688667192014-03-09T21:18:44.701+07:002014-03-09T21:18:44.701+07:00Thanks for your comment! Yes I agree, which is exa...Thanks for your comment! Yes I agree, which is exactly why I don't regret my past relationships because I know I lived them to the best of their potential xxTitan Tyrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12775882806345928044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-68972713908324008932014-03-09T17:39:46.952+07:002014-03-09T17:39:46.952+07:00Love knows no age can be interpretted in a good wa...Love knows no age can be interpretted in a good way here. Nice article you've got here, my friend. It's light to read yet meaningful. I as a teenager enjoyed reading this very much and hope to read more articles from you in the near future :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-44121571108366691702014-03-08T10:40:46.196+07:002014-03-08T10:40:46.196+07:00Some things take practice. Some really don't. ...Some things take practice. Some really don't. Dating falls under the latter. You don't need practice, nor do you need experience, to date a person who'll truly love you (in other words, you could just avoid those "experienced" bastards who'll manipulate you like a toy; they really don't deserve you). <br /><br />Keeping your innocence is alright. You're fresh out of the fridge, and there are men out there who value this asset very much. The way mature men see it is: she's patient, resolute and uninfluenced by her peers, she's innocent but clever, as to save herself for me. <br /><br />You aren't a stupid or nube girlfriend, you're just with the wrong man who can't appreciate your past.<br /><br />"Dipping your toes into the pool before taking the plunge" - do this by learning about guys from a distance, not earning yourself experience and trying things out with them. Why do we try out people like they're objects or practice runs, right?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-19382379958789649852014-03-07T21:16:29.068+07:002014-03-07T21:16:29.068+07:00beautiful article! i think the most important thin...beautiful article! i think the most important thing is to enjoy the moment, here and now, no matter what's your age or your relationship status; because that is truly how one lives life to the fullest. xAnathapindikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09775160191631022386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220355749823264438.post-53716623664789551872014-03-04T08:09:55.622+07:002014-03-04T08:09:55.622+07:00Although I somewhat agree, from my personal experi...Although I somewhat agree, from my personal experience waiting until you're 18 to date isn't really the best thing. I started dating at 18 and let me tell you, being a young 'innocent' girl means getting taken advantage of by experienced men who see me as nothing more than a playtoy they can manipulate. Because I have never learned how to be a girlfriend, I became a bad one, or at least a mediocre one. Waiting until you're 18 may work for some people, but for me it just means that I have become gullible and stupid. Instead of growing up learning about boys, the boy world was thrust upon me and I had no idea what to do with it. I wish I dated when I was younger because it's like dipping your toes into the pool before taking the plunge when you're older. But now I've taken the plunge without knowing how deep or how cold. Learning should be a process that takes time. Dating at 18 means the world have already learned about love and relationships while I have not. Trust me, it gets me in trouble. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com